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noreply@blogger.com (Private Investigation) — Wed, 14 Sep 2011 03:26:00 +0000

Singapore private Investigator

SINGAPORE: A private investigator has claimed that he was abused and handcuffed by a Certis Cisco officer outside the Embassy of Israel while he was investigating an alleged adultery case, and is suing the security company and its employee Chua Geok Teck for assault and wrongful arrest.

Mr Simon Suppiah Sunmugam, 62, was conducting surveillance around the vicinity of Stevens Road and Dalvey Road on March 10, 2009, when the alleged abuse took place, the High Court heard on the first day of hearings on Tuesday.

Mr Sunmugam said that he had not been aware the embassy was nearby as there are no signs indicating it was a restricted place.

In court papers, the former police officer claimed that on the day of the incident, a male Caucasian employee of the embassy’s security department had first approached him. Mr Sunmugam had said that he was waiting for someone, and Mr Chua was alerted to the incident.

Mr Sunmugam claimed that Mr Chua had approached him in an aggressive manner and he was accused of being a suspected terrorist.

He added that Mr Chua then violently handcuffed his right wrist and swiped at his feet, causing him to fall face down onto the ground. Throughout the incident, Mr Sunmugam did not declare that he is a private investigator.

In court, Mr Sunmugam said he was restrained for 30 minutes and his handcuffed hand was yanked many times, causing him tremendous pain. As a result, he was emotionally and psychologically disturbed for a year, he said.

The court also heard that Mr Sunmugam had his injuries captured on video and photographs.

During cross—examination, defence lawyer Gary Low said that Mr Sunmugam’s account is "completely inconsistent" with his case.

He told Mr Sunmugam: "Your account is wholly unbelievable and grossly exaggerating", and noted that Mr Sunmugam’s medical report following the incident indicated that he was "discharged well without the need for a follow up".

The court also heard that Mr Sunmugam had insulted Mr Chua by saying he is "lowly educated" and is "not a real policeman", while Mr Chua had remained polite.

Mr Low added that when Mr Chua attempted to reach for Mr Sunmugam’s bag, Mr Sunmugam shoved Mr Chua’s hand away and caused the latter to fall. Mr Sunmugam disagreed with Mr Low, saying he neither insulted nor pushed Mr Chua.

The hearing continues on Wednesday. —

The Big "NO-NOs" When Dealing With Infidelity

noreply@blogger.com (Private Investigation) — Thu, 08 Sep 2011 08:35:00 +0000

The Big "NO-NOs" When Dealing With Infidelity

As we all know, women are more emotionally-wired than men. Meaning, they have the tendency to allow their emotions control their actions and their way of thinking. So when married women face the infidelity of their husbands, they usually react badly at once and make hasty decisions. Let me tell you this: DON'T. Control yourself! Don't allow emotionally-wired choices decide what will happen in your marriage. You have to be the one in control, not your emotions.

10 Signs You Are Being Cheated On

noreply@blogger.com (Private Investigation) — Thu, 08 Sep 2011 08:33:00 +0000

10 Signs You Are Being Cheated On

Finding out your significant other has been having an affair can be an emotionally devastating experience. If you notice these tell-tale signs, you might have a cheating spouse on your hands. These aren't proof-positive of an affair, but these worrisome behaviors may prompt you to start gathering evidence or hiring a private detective.

Is It Possible To Have A Good Marriage Even If Your Husband Cheated Or Had An Affair?

noreply@blogger.com (Private Investigation) — Thu, 08 Sep 2011 08:32:00 +0000

Is It Possible To Have A Good Marriage Even If Your Husband Cheated Or Had An Affair?

He's very reluctant to talk about the details behind it. I want to know what was so wrong in our marriage to make him risk every thing. He insists that there was nothing wrong with me or our marriage. In fact, he insists that our marriage was a good one. I have to admit that I thought the same thing. But I don't think it's possible to have a good marriage if someone cheats. I think that, by definition alone, once infidelity occurs, you have a bad marriage automatically."

Cheating - The Forbidden Fruit in a Relationship

noreply@blogger.com (Private Investigation) — Thu, 08 Sep 2011 08:31:00 +0000

Cheating - The Forbidden Fruit in a Relationship

There are many reasons why a couple breaks up. It may be because of anger control issues, or attitude problems. Maybe you don't like a certain attitude of your partner, or you discovered a side of your partner that you never saw and that you can't tolerate. Among all the many reasons, there are a few that can be compromised for the sake of keeping the beauty and joy of the relationship

Infidelity - Can the Married Make Room for a Cheater?

noreply@blogger.com (Private Investigation) — Thu, 08 Sep 2011 08:30:00 +0000

Infidelity - Can the Married Make Room for a Cheater?

How painful, destructive, and devastating it would be if infidelity enters your marriage. It is never easy when your spouse cheated on you, am I right? I mean, it already hurts if you have your boyfriend or girlfriend cheat on you, what more a partner supposedly for life?

What Kind Of Man Cheats On His Wife?

noreply@blogger.com (Private Investigation) — Thu, 08 Sep 2011 08:29:00 +0000

What Kind Of Man Cheats On His Wife?

I recently heard from a wife who said, in part: "I am so shocked at and disappointed in my husband. He has always been a person of integrity and honor. Now I am finding out that he has been having an affair for the last four weeks. He went behind my back. He lied to me. And he lied to her. He says he's sorry now, but he's probably sorry that he's been caught. What kind of man has an affair? Because I feel like the one beside me is now a stranger .

Forgiving an Affair and Moving On, Can You?

noreply@blogger.com (Private Investigation) — Thu, 08 Sep 2011 08:27:00 +0000

Forgiving an Affair and Moving On?

When you discover that your partner is having an affair it is normal to feel shocked and numb. You will feel as if your whole world has fallen apart and nothing around you will look and feel the same, this is after all something that you never thought would happen in your relationship. So what should you do now that you know the painful truth and will you be able to forgive your cheating partner?

How Can I Prove Myself To My Spouse After I Cheated And Had An Affair?

noreply@blogger.com (Private Investigation) — Thu, 08 Sep 2011 08:26:00 +0000

How Can I Prove Myself To My Spouse After I Cheated And Had An Affair?

I have brought her expensive gifts, said I'm sorry a million times, and constantly tell her how much I love her but she still looks at me with suspicion. I am starting to wonder if I am going to spend the rest of my life this way. How can a man prove himself after infidelity once and for all? Because I feel like I'm not making any progress."

Forgiving the Unforgivable – After an Affair

noreply@blogger.com (Private Investigation) — Thu, 08 Sep 2011 08:25:00 +0000

Forgiving the Unforgivable – After an Affair

Is forgiving the infidelity of your partner possible after learning that he or she is cheating on you? Well, if your spouse has been cheating for either months or years it really cuts deep, opening a wound that leaves a scar. To forgive something that painful is almost next to impossible.

Why Did He Say Or Claim He Hated His Wife

noreply@blogger.com (Private Investigation) — Thu, 08 Sep 2011 08:23:00 +0000

Why Did He Say Or Claim He Hated His Wife And Then Go Back To Her?
Believe it or not, I get this question quite a bit. Sometimes, the "other woman" who has been cheating with the husband asks the question. And sometimes, I hear this question from the wife who is hearing from someone else that her husband has been claiming to hate her at the same time he was cheating on her.

I finally broke down

noreply@blogger.com (Private Investigation) — Thu, 08 Sep 2011 08:22:00 +0000

My Husband Claims He's Not In Love With Me After He Cheated And Had An Affair

I finally broke down and asked him if he still loved me. The answer he gave me was 'I love you but I'm not in love with you.' What does that even mean? Then I asked him if he was "in love" with the other woman and he finally admitted that yes, he was but he knew that they couldn't be together and he knew their relationship was wrong so he was going to make our marriage work. Well, that's all very nice and it sounds very good. But what does that mean for me

Right And Wrong Reasons To Save Your Marriage

noreply@blogger.com (Private Investigation) — Thu, 08 Sep 2011 08:21:00 +0000

Right And Wrong Reasons To Save Your Marriage Or Relationship After Cheating
And although I can't make this decision for you, I can tell you what I have found to be the right reasons and the wrong reasons that people stay together after cheating. I see many couples who attempt to stay together for the wrong reasons eventually either fail in their marriage or become so angry and bitter that they wonder if they would be better off if they had failed.

Ways To Make A Husband Feel Your Pain After He Cheated Or Had An Affair

noreply@blogger.com (Private Investigation) — Thu, 08 Sep 2011 08:20:00 +0000

Ways To Make A Husband Feel Your Pain After He Cheated Or Had An Affair

My husband doesn't know what it's like to both love and hate your spouse at the same time. I want him to feel that same insecurity, pain and desperation. Because I feel like if he knew how this feels, he might empathize with me more, be more sincerely sorry, and have more patience and sympathy. But the only way to do that is to cheat on him myself and then to tell him about it. I could never ever do that. So how can I make him understand how this feels and encourage him to feel my pain?"

My Husband Is Moving Out To Go Live With His Mistress. What Now?

noreply@blogger.com (Private Investigation) — Thu, 08 Sep 2011 08:18:00 +0000

My Husband Is Moving Out To Go Live With His Mistress. What Now?

I recently heard from a wife on my surviving the affair blog who said: "my husband has been having an eight month affair with a woman from his work. At first, he told me he would end things with her and try to save our marriage. Last week, he came home and announced that he couldn't live a lie anymore so he was going to move out and go to live with her. I am just beside myself because it looks like he has made his choice. What can I do? Do I just have to accept this?"

The Married Personal Add

noreply@blogger.com (Private Investigation) — Thu, 08 Sep 2011 08:17:00 +0000

The Married Personal Add

Where Everyone is There for the Same Reason
Just think about it, married personal ads. That is an idea whose time has come. Whether it was the personals, small seedy magazines or bars, we have always had risky ways of seeking others desiring an extramarital affair. Never has it been easier and safer to screen and initiate contact with literally thousands of people looking for exactly the same thing. A no strings attached (nsa) one night stand.

Why Does The Woman My Husband's Been Cheating With Have Such A Hold Over Him?

noreply@blogger.com (Private Investigation) — Thu, 08 Sep 2011 08:15:00 +0000

Why Does The Woman My Husband's Been Cheating With Have Such A Hold Over Him?
I recently heard from a wife on my surviving the affair blog who said, in part: "I just don't get the hold this other woman has on my husband or the power she seems to have over him. My husband is a smart and successful man. He doesn't usually take orders from anyone. He isn't usually easily impressed. And yet he's willing to risk nearly everything for this woman. He's willing to jump through all sorts of hoops or give up his family just to make her happy. I just do not understand it. "

Signs Of A Cheating And How To Catch Them

noreply@blogger.com (Private Investigation) — Thu, 08 Sep 2011 08:13:00 +0000

Signs Of A Cheating And How To Catch Them

It is a horrible feeling to imagine your spouse having an affair behind your back. Some individuals would swear that this is labelled as the ultimate betrayal. When a partner cheats, it can instantly destroy a relationship that took years to develop. Those individuals who find their partners cheating may go through a lot of emotions including grief, rage, shame and even depression.

The Woman My Husband Has Been Cheating With Denies Having An Affair With Him. Why Is She Lying?

noreply@blogger.com (Private Investigation) — Thu, 08 Sep 2011 08:12:00 +0000

The Woman My Husband Has Been Cheating With Denies Having An Affair With Him. Why Is She Lying?

I told her I knew everything. She looked at me as if she didn't have any idea what I was talking about. I told her I knew about her and my husband's relationship. She asked me 'what relationship' and insisted that they were just friends. I told her I'd read the emails between them and then she got a little red in the face but said that it was just a very friendly relationship and that my husband must have 'gotten the wrong idea.'

Do I Confront My Husband About An Affair That Is Now Over?

noreply@blogger.com (Private Investigation) — Thu, 08 Sep 2011 08:11:00 +0000

Do I Confront My Husband About An Affair That Is Now Over?

I recently heard from a wife who said: "I found facebook messages on my husband's computer which clearly showed me that he had an affair last year. However, I was able to follow all of the messages and determine that the relationship has been over for months. Our marriage was struggling at the time he was cheating, but it is much better now. So now I am wondering whether I should confront him about the affair and ensure that we struggle all over again?

Are There Any Valid Reasons To Stay Together After Your Husband Is Unfaithful?

noreply@blogger.com (Private Investigation) — Thu, 08 Sep 2011 08:09:00 +0000

Are There Any Valid Reasons To Stay Together After Your Husband Is Unfaithful?

I recently heard from a wife who said, in part: "my husband cheated on me last year by having an affair with my assistant. I actually make more money than him. Our children are in college and grown. I'm not dependent on him financially or for my happiness. I was talking about this situation with my friend the other day and she said 'why in the world would you stay married?

How To Get Him Back After You Have Had An Affair?

noreply@blogger.com (Private Investigation) — Thu, 08 Sep 2011 08:07:00 +0000

How To Get Him Back After You Have Had An Affair?

How do you restore lost trust? This is not going to be easy. It will require a fundamental change in the way you act towards each other and your attitudes to each other. An affair is possibly the greatest test of a relationship, but there is still hope even following an affair.

How Do I Help My Children Cope With Our Divorce?

noreply@blogger.com (Private Investigation) — Thu, 08 Sep 2011 08:05:00 +0000

How Do I Help My Children Cope With Our Divorce

When I'm Barely Hanging On? Sometimes the biggest fear your child has is that he or she will never see the other parent. Whether or not your relationship as husband and wife continues, you will always be bound to one another by the children you share.

What Top Tips for Helping Your Kids Through a Divorce

noreply@blogger.com (Private Investigation) — Thu, 08 Sep 2011 08:03:00 +0000

What Top Tips for Helping Your Kids Through a Divorce

As bad as divorce is for the couple separating, it's even harder for any kids involved. Divorce is rough on kids of all ages. For little kids, it's confusing and scary to see mommy and daddy breaking up and no longer living together.

Cheap Divorce Lawyer: Is There Such A Thing?

noreply@blogger.com (Private Investigation) — Thu, 08 Sep 2011 08:01:00 +0000

Cheap Divorce Lawyer: Is There Such A Thing?

While this is sound reasoning, particularly since contested divorces cost so much money, the problem is that cheap lawyers aren't usually very experienced and don't have a great reputation. Not to mention that a cheaper lawyer could end up costing you more in the long run if he or she doesn't handle the case properly.